Agreed. Sometimes I admit I can come off pushy, but really I'm just trying to help the animal, and I definitely try not to be too pushy. If things are getting ugly, I back up and try to make amends. No one knows everyone elses set ups, or how they do things, how healthy their fish are, ect. ect. The circumstances are different for everyone, yet some people seem to think there's only one way, and everything else is evil and wrong. For these reasons I stick more to the Lounge these days. After you've been here for a year, you see the same things again and again. But I love this place, and am in no hurry to leave.