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post #1 of 36 (permalink) Old 02-21-2011, 08:16 PM Thread Starter
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I need help convincing my mom- anyone who can come up with a good argument, help!

So.... Mister Fishy died last night :(

And I want to divide up his old tank (I was planning on it whether he was an occupant or not).

It's 10 gallons. I have the filter, heater, thermometer, gravel, everything I need for it. I have to replace the filter cartridge and baffle (I will this weekend, and then I'll cycle the tank before I put fish in).

She doesn't want me to get another Betta. She'll let me, but she doesn't want me to.

She wants me to use my old 5 gallon hex, and only get one Betta. My dad is all for me dividing up the tank. His attitude is "If I'm not responsible for cleaning it, you can have as many fish as you want."

So how do I persuade her to let me buy two Bettas? I really like them a lot. I keep up with the upkeep (It's not like it was any different than it was for just one fish, it's big enough that I only have to do a 50% once a week with the filter).

Thank youuuu :)



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post #2 of 36 (permalink) Old 02-21-2011, 09:19 PM
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tell her, it's your choice, and you'll be the one cleaning it and caring for the fish, not her. :d that works with my mom.
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post #3 of 36 (permalink) Old 02-22-2011, 01:20 PM Thread Starter
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Even then she won't want me to- it's more about money than anything. My old Betta was sick once, plus I had to buy the tank and everything, so in the long run he probably cost me about $125. She thinks that will happen again even though I already have everything I need besides the divider and I'm going to make one of those by hand.

Even though it was MY money she thinks it's ridiculous for me to spend it on fish.



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RIP Mister Fishy :(

Divided 10-gallon:

Mister Fishy II (Fishy, Agent II)- solid red double tail male

Flor Azul (AKA Azul, Zully, Azzy, Zu, Zul, Az)- royal blue and white butterfly delta male
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post #4 of 36 (permalink) Old 02-23-2011, 03:35 PM Thread Starter
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Anyoneeeee elseeeeeee?



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RIP Mister Fishy :(

Divided 10-gallon:

Mister Fishy II (Fishy, Agent II)- solid red double tail male

Flor Azul (AKA Azul, Zully, Azzy, Zu, Zul, Az)- royal blue and white butterfly delta male
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post #5 of 36 (permalink) Old 02-23-2011, 04:25 PM
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Hi! This is my first post :D
Sorry about your loss. I am sure Mr. Fishy was a beautiful fish.
To convince your mom, I would explain the joy you had with Mr.Fishy. Explain to her why you love owning fish. For me, I find watching my fish swim therapeutic. It is so calming watching the fish swim around and play with eachother.
Show her a list of the things needed to house fish, and then show her that you already have all of it.
Show her the beauty in bettas with pictures and maybe some videos from youtube. Remind her the cost of betta fish are relatively cheap, and that you will be paying for everything yourself.
As you mentioned above, she isn't denying you the fish, she just doesn't WANT you to get them. I was in a similar position with my fish. Even though my mom didn't want me to get fish, I bought two anyway. She seems to like watching them as much as I do.
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post #6 of 36 (permalink) Old 02-23-2011, 04:29 PM Thread Starter
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*sigh* I suppose :P

I mean, the worst that can happen is I bring them home and set it up and she notices, freaks out and is mad for a few days, and then resigns herself to it :P

I'm going to talk to my dad, see if he knows how to convince her :P



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RIP Mister Fishy :(

Divided 10-gallon:

Mister Fishy II (Fishy, Agent II)- solid red double tail male

Flor Azul (AKA Azul, Zully, Azzy, Zu, Zul, Az)- royal blue and white butterfly delta male
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post #7 of 36 (permalink) Old 02-23-2011, 04:49 PM Thread Starter
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YESSSS!

As long as I don't get them till spring break (AKA three weeks) I'm good. She doesn't want me to get them now, but my dad is perfectly fine with it (I haven't mentioned I'm getting two yet to her :P) and as long as he's on my side I'm good. She'll get mad and yell at me and then he'll tell her it's up to me.



http://www.bettafish.com/album.php?albumid=1219

RIP Mister Fishy :(

Divided 10-gallon:

Mister Fishy II (Fishy, Agent II)- solid red double tail male

Flor Azul (AKA Azul, Zully, Azzy, Zu, Zul, Az)- royal blue and white butterfly delta male
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Congrats! I'm really happy for you!
Thank goodness for easy-going dads, huh!

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post #9 of 36 (permalink) Old 02-23-2011, 05:27 PM Thread Starter
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Yep :) Well, his attitude is just "If I don't have to do anything, you can have whatever you want."



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RIP Mister Fishy :(

Divided 10-gallon:

Mister Fishy II (Fishy, Agent II)- solid red double tail male

Flor Azul (AKA Azul, Zully, Azzy, Zu, Zul, Az)- royal blue and white butterfly delta male
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post #10 of 36 (permalink) Old 02-23-2011, 07:31 PM
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Hahaha. That's my dad too. XD

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