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post #1 of 22 (permalink) Old 10-30-2011, 08:33 PM Thread Starter
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My guy doesn't flare...

I've had our betta Thomas for a week now and I have only seen him flare (only his gills for that matter) once at an aquarium figurine who obviously sassed him, lol... the reason why I'm bringing it up here is because I keep seeing things here and there on this forum that some bettas flare (gills, fins, everything!) to say hi, when they're hungry, emotion they're demonstrating when they're happy (seems odd, but OK lol), what have you..

Do some bettas never/seldom flare? My guy doesn't seem the "flare" type.
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post #2 of 22 (permalink) Old 10-30-2011, 11:48 PM
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My boys never flare at me, only each other. And when I only had one, he never flared. Have you tried showing him a mirror? That sometimes works. Otherwise, don't worry. Maybe your boy has a zen personality where nothing bothers him!

Flaring and bubbles nests don't mean happiness. They are just natural instincts that IMO mean the fish isn't sick. My roomies have a fish in a 1/2 gallon bowl that is never cleaned and not heated and he still flares and makes bubble nests.

Remember that the tank your fish lives in is his or her's whole world. Ask yourself this question, and answer it honestly: would you choose to live there?
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post #3 of 22 (permalink) Old 11-01-2011, 03:01 PM
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You aren't alone. My boy has only flared (that I've seen) once. I tried showing him a mirror but he just ignored it. Maybe he would more if he saw another betta but since I only have him (for NOW anyway) I don't know that yet
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my delta, Ichi. NEVER flares his gills. he'll spread his fins wide, but won't flare his gills. even his fin spreading seems half-hearted. lol i don't think there's anything wrong with that. Ichi's just a chill dude(he lived in constant sight of my blind HMPK, before Theo died. 24/7 view, unless he wanted to go behind a plant).
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post #5 of 22 (permalink) Old 11-01-2011, 07:23 PM
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I have one that I have only seen flare once and his gill cover opened, but he had no beard. So I guess they are all different.
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post #6 of 22 (permalink) Old 11-03-2011, 08:54 PM
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Mine flares at everything. He doesn't like the thermometer placed in his tank, flares at the bottle of water I put down near his tank, pencils, pens, the lamp, his mirror, a pad, etc. He likes to defend his territory.

Sometimes I will be working and turn my head and he rushes from the other side of the tank and blow up his gills at me. It's funny.

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post #7 of 22 (permalink) Old 11-03-2011, 11:44 PM
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My Logan flares at ALL and my Kilo never flares at anything. It's just one of those things. Some do, some don't, some never stop!

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I got one guy that can't flare. He tries and his fins streach out but the puffy thing doesn't puff up. I tested his ammonia level when i got him and it was a 4, so Im thinking ammonia burn scars are preventing it?

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post #9 of 22 (permalink) Old 11-04-2011, 08:45 AM
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I have one that took over a month to flare.. even seeing his male neighbor he didn't flare. Wasn't until I moved him next to Fallen's tank (A female) did he flare for the first time.

Breeder so I have too many to count and too many named to list here!

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post #10 of 22 (permalink) Old 11-04-2011, 11:10 AM
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I finally got mine to flare. Apparently I needed to move the mirror around a bit. THEN he flared up a LOT.
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