That's a bit different though. I'm 20, nearly 21, so I'm no longer a child and I can see the world from my parents' point of view. I respect my mum's experience in the field of romance, whether it's outdated or not, but she has no experience in fish keeping, nor do any of my other family members, which is why it upsets me that they ignore my advice and endanger a fish's life. I'm very grateful for their advice in all other parts of my life, but they simply don't know enough about fish to be offering advice. It would be like me telling my dad he's servicing his motorbike wrong, or giving my mum dressmaking advice, or trying to correct my sister's piano playing. I don't have any knowledge in those areas, so I don't try and give advice. When I help my dad look after my motorbike, try my own textiles projects and play on my sister's paino, I do listen to the advice they give, because they are the experts.