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post #1 of 23 (permalink) Old 06-21-2012, 10:04 PM Thread Starter
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Bout to go on a date and..

So this guy i no and sometimes he takes stuff too far and idk if i wanna spend all day with him, but i dont wanna say no cuz hes like rlly nice and all, but he says he wants to go out and do sumthin bad and i dont wanna get in trouble.. how do i tell him to keep it cool around me?
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Awkward......

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Hey they said EVERYTHING ive seen worse here. just wanted advce :P
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if you're uncomfortable with him, have your parents "tell" you no

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Don't put up with him.
I don't care if he's nice. I got harassed for so long because I kept forgiving the guy for being a total creep.
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but I WANT to go on the date, I just want him to keep it cool around me, ik ke can, but sometimes he just doesn't and I really like to spend time with him, but yeah.. :/ We were gunna to go his aunts coffee shop and i was k with that, but now were goin all over dc the the Smithsonian and im like... O_o
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awkward......
lol

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Some guys will never be chill. I can't count the number of times I told this guy:
"you are making me uncomfortable"
"that's a really creepy thing to say"
"I don't think I want to hang out with you anymore"
Of course this was after MONTHS of things that I can't say, lol.

Go on your date, but some guys never learn!
Also, don't worry about saying really upfront things, like above. Creepy guys are hard to shake off.
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Ok, I will and if he doesn't get it ill go home.. But hes rlly nice and i wanna give him a chance...
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post #10 of 23 (permalink) Old 06-22-2012, 07:36 AM
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Don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable and just tell him NO!

If he doesn't listen to you, he's not someone you want to be with because he doesn't respect or care about what you want. Good luck!

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