It's really not too easy if you've got very Christian people around you. I went to a Christian school for nine years, and for the last two (when I was becoming a young adult), I began to question and ultimately dismiss the Christian religion. It was hard being in that situation. I was still forced to go through confirmation by my parents even though I told them I didn't believe it. Many of my classmates were constantly telling me how worried they were that I would be condemned to hell..
Currently, I consider myself agnostic. Approaching religion from a scientific perspective... creationism is also a hard pill to swallow. But as far as the big bang theory, that seems just as impossible to me. (It's a scientific law that energy cannot be created or destroyed, so where'd it come from in the first place?). I feel like being agnostic rubs those who are piously religious a little less, so it's easier to get along. You and I can't prove any of the gods do not exist, just like they cannot prove god/s do exist.
Saying your agnostic, to me, means you're still sole searching. That's something they should be able to respect. You should also respect the fact that they will be worried because, according to their beliefs, you may be condemned to an eternity in hell. That's not something I would hope anyone would wish upon their loved ones. So, if they try to witness to you, be respective and open to it. If you are closed off about hearing what they have to say, they'll only push harder because they love you. Honestly believe in a faith takes a lot of trust and, well, faith. You may believe it's faith in something nonexistent, but you need to respect the devotion they've put in to their religion. Religion is a crucial part of some peoples lives and you just need to accept that. Even if you have to pretend to be agnostic, at least it will make you appear to have more of an open mind and a leas dismissive attitude towards what is so important to them.
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