I have cousins who never planned their kids. It was just like whoops, I'm having a baby. I don't know if it even crossed their mind that it could be prevented.
I guess it's all in the person? lol
My mom's ex-bf's daughter (who I could not stand) got pregnant on purpose to trap her bf into marriage. She basically demanded he marry her, and took him to move to her home state with her. He had the last straw when she tried to force him to join the military so she could get the benefits, and when he didn't she complained to everyone to make all the family and friends pressure him and call him immature about not wanting to join and such. Yeah, he smartened up and left her... then she found her 2nd chance with another guy and did the same thing. She had a miscarriage and shrugged it off and said "eh, doesn't matter, we'll try again". When told she needed to wait before trying again to ensure a safer pregnancy for both her and the baby, she said she didn't care. She really is all about herself... and that's the kind of person who I hate that they can have kids so easily.
Meanwhile my sister and law just lost her baby girl, and my good friend had a miscarriage a while back. It just infuriates me that good people can have a hard time conceiving or having a healthy pregnancy, while spoiled selfish people pop them out left and right, either for carelessness or their own self centered wants.
My daughter was unplanned, but at the time we got pregnant we had actually made plans to try in 1 years time. So she was unexpected, but you could say she just came earlier than planned is all
Oh, I was so happy today... I talked about some things with him and he is still completely on board with this
but he did get a bit annoyed when I started rambling
So I started taking vitamins yesterday, and I'm going to get decaf coffee and all those precautions. I need painters masks too because I am the only one who cleans the litter boxes, and because my husband is allergic to fleas, I have to treat the carpets and furniture as it starts to get hotter. Though I guess I should wear masks regardless, that stuff isn't healthy to breathe no matter what
My friend has also offered to come over weekly when I do get preggerz and am later into it, so she can help me with heavier tasks like the water changes. Really... I had 2 really frustrating weeks where everything seemed to go wrong... but I'm on the top of the world this week