I'm sorry for your loss...
But seat belts really do help more than they hurt. I had a wreck last year in October that totaled my tank of a car. The seat belt burned me, but if I hadn't have been wearing it, I would have smashed my face on the steering wheel. No telling what that would have done.
I tell this to everyone and especially a friend of mine who hates wearing seat belts.
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