Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Jakarta, Indonesia
Does anyone know the movie called "Cool Running", a true story about a Jamaican bobsled team who went to the winter olympics in Canada. This is a perfect example about a dream. There is no snow in Jamaica. Everyone ridiculed the team. But they made it and in the end gained world wide respect.
So, for the fourth time (hope my comp. doesn't hang again) Never let anyone tell you that your dreams are stupid, foolish, senseless or whatever. If it makes you happy, if you want it bad enough, then go for it.
Zenandra, you are still young and have "a life time" to fill. Others may have started earlier, but who knows, you might be more successful, and happier. Think of the years to come, don't look back unless there's a lesson to be learned.
You're not a failure, on the contrary, I think you're doing great. Through out life you will experience unpleasant conditions which you must over come. Sometimes caused by other people, sometimes by chance circumstance. Just believe that you can always stay on top of things. You'll find out later that you'll become stronger and more mature.
And about friends, as you can see you have a lot of friends here. From your threads and replies, I think you are a very nice and pleasant person. YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE!
We live in different worlds but go through similar things. If you want to know about life in my world (country) feel free to PM me anytime.
Btw. sorry about your grandma.