Sigh...are there men in this world not designed to confuse? Men you won't cry over?
Also, I got blamed for the mystery snail dying. He couldn't live in the goldfish tank whilst the medication was happening, so I offered up my spare 5 gallon with a silk plant and some other stuff. I changed the water once for him, because I knew no one else was doing it. He died, either from starvation or dirty water, I'm not sure. I fed him occasionally, but I wasn't aware that I was supposed to be taking care of him because HE WASN'T MY SNAIL. Yes, he's in my tank, but that's like saying the landlord has to clean the tenant's flat. The owner of the snail should be the one caring for him, regardless of where he is living. Grr. And now I feel like it IS my fault.
On the plus side, I won $44 worth of Safe (3 and a bit more times more concentrated than Prime) at the fish raffle last night. :D