Theres just too much to go back to catch everyone up on the drama xD!! It's 2am right now, but maybe tomorrow I'll do some explaining.
In a nutshell - I'm 23 and I'm still treated as though I'm 16. 1:00 curfew, have to text her whenever I'm doing something, she checks my plate to see if I ate all my dinner (really), she has a major jealousy issue with my boyfriend because I spend so much time at his house because I don't want to be around her (especially now that she recently decided to divorce my dad and take it out on everyone else). Just so much more. She always has something to complain about to me. And if she doesn't, she will find something, on purpose.
She just told me recently that she was going to start charging me rent. My thoughts on that? Perfectly understandable. Using their food, their water, their electricity, I wouldn't mind giving my parents money. HOWEVER, I told her that I get my freedom if I'm paying to live there (even hough I already pay from years of mental abuse lol). That means no curfew, I get to sleep over my boyfriend's house whenever I want, I don't have to text her every time I go to the bathroom or breathe, etc. She would no longer be my mother, she would be my tenant. This isn't asking for much, is it? Is this fair?
She basically flipped a s*** and went on about how she works two jobs (like the rest of America...I work three) and how I'm living under her roof, etc. Yeah, I'm living under your roof, but I would also be PAYING you. I'm not going to pay you to treat me like a child, sorry.
She's just an awful woman. Just a little while ago I came home from my boyfriend's (at 1:00 like I'm supposed to) and got on my laptop because I wasn't tired. She happened to be up, which she (or my dad) NEVER is because its late. She comes down stairs and yells, "How the HELL can you come home and not tell anyone you're home or bother to say hi?"
Umm, what? I've been coming home at 1:00 for like three years now and I have never once ran up the stairs, barged into your room, and said "OH HAI I'M HOME." It's 1 in the morning. Why would I do this? If I did that, you would yell at me for waking you up.
She contradicts herself so bad I can't even get into it, that's another whole story.
And its just been worse since she decided to leave my dad. SHE decided, yet she takes everything out on him (and me) and gives him crap for going out to have some fun or whatever. I want to strangle her.
So yeah, just a very small portion of my NIGHT. I can't even begin to explain the last few years (ever since I got into a seriously relationship, really).
Last edited by dramaqueen; 04-21-2012 at 12:16 PM.