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post #15051 of 23834 (permalink) Old 10-30-2012, 11:48 AM
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I have a sister that is still mad at me for things that happened years ago! I've learned to just let it go. You can't change the past!
Oh I know exactly how you feel, I have a best friend (yes, she still is my best friend) who holds things over my head from YEARS ago DX she gets in these little moods and all of a sudden EVERYTHING I do is wrong lol
*sigh* How we're still friends I'll never know, even our parents are confused

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I really wish planning my senior recital was easier... everthing that could go wrong IS going wrong, and now my accompanist won't e-mail me back... I've had to reschedule twice now, and really can't afford to do it again *sigh*
On that note, planning practice time is getting harder to... and easier at the same time.. geez... why did I want to be a music major again?
I'm way too hard on myself and need to be more confident....
And I'm tired of seeing petty bickering on this site... *sigh* and I was just starting to feel at home here

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It was petty. Know why? Because its done. Gone. Over with. The past is gone - the present is NOW. Look forward to the future and live for today. Until people realize that they will be stuck in the past, unable to see the future because they've clouded the present with past problems.

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It was pretty severe. I am living today because it happened today.
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Yes, but five minutes ago? Five hours ago? THAT is still the past. Let it go. You will live healthier without stressing over what cannot be changed.

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By stressing over it it can be prevented from happening again.
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Not really. Letting it go, or other words finding a solution can prevent or deter the problem from happening again. Stress, bothers your body and mind - so best to let it go.

Example: I was stranded from home for about a week. A few bettas in that time passed away or got sick. I had to regime everything. Yes I was upset, but now I do not care. Because I can start over, redo, and learned not to rely on anyone anymore. And so far it's been soooo much better!!

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I agree with sena. We can't change what happened in the past so it's best to just let it go.
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But then we dont know who to trust.
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