I have been a member of this forum for 4.5 years. When I first joined, people seemed to be friendlier and more polite. Now, I see people making snarky, rude comments all the time without thinking of how other people are going to interpret it.It's easy to hide behind a computer monitor and just let people have it. People post things on a computer that they'd never say to a person face to face. I'm also seeing people use the "I'm not rude,I just don't sugarcoat stuff" excuse or the "I'm not rude, I'm blunt" excuse. I also believe we shouldn't be passing judgement on someone's lifestyle. How people live their lives is not our business. Treat people as you would like to be treated.