Shirley, heads up & try to stay above it all!!! Don't let these childish idiots get the better of you (or the betta of you, har). I was such a doormat to my ex-in-laws for so many years- getting into their petty dramas! It was so hard to figure out who was not speaking to who b/c Mark insulted Susan and Karen's husband didn't approve of Susan's lifestyle so my husband couldn't speak to Karen, but he regularly spoke to Mark who then got mad at some blown vacation plans made by my ex and Uncle Paul so Mark still isn't speaking to them.... I could go on. LIFE IS TOO SHORT for drama queens like these!!!! I'm glad to be rid of them!!!!
4 bettas: Butch, 3-year-old violet male PK EE & 3 girls in a 30 gal sorority. I do not name the girls anymore! 1/2 of them die within a month.
30 gal: 9 Oto cats, 4 Ocellifer cats. Inverts: Cherry shrimp & 2 assasin snails.
10 gal.: Butch, his 5 oto cats, 3 assasin snails, and a few snails the assassins haven't caught.