I'm just so upset about how we never do anything with my brother and sister in law. He comes over about once a week (when he's home) and she comes once in awhile. When her daughter and granddaughter came a few days before Thanksgiving we weren't invited to have dinner with them. We did have Thanksgiving dinner with them. Then my mom misunderstood about the time and we were 45 minutes late. He flipped out about that. Now he's dumping off some food for us (I suppose I should be grateful and I am) but darn it, holidays are meant for families and loved ones to be together! He does the cooking but I suppose they think 2 extra people are a lot more work and since we're all supposed to be together Christmas day it would be too much work. He's making their traditional asparagus soup and cabbage rolls. We'll see if we get any soup. We usually spent Christmas eve by ourselves in Kentucky but went to a cousin's house for dinner. I really wish we hadn't moved. This really sucks. I feel awful.