When I first started dating my husband many, many moons ago, he kept a picture of a certain girl in his wallet. I remember him talking about her a lot. She was gorgeous and he always had a crush on her. She used to come into work and show him her bra. When I found out he had her picture, I kinda went all angry on him and asked him to get rid of it. He did, but years later I regretted making such a scene.
They were friends and I think I crossed a line. Kinda like what you're talking about? So I know what you mean. It's a sticky situation and men don't always take those things as seriously as we girls do.
I agree, but its still good to let them know. Theyre so derp, they just dont see it like us wimins. :P
I do think, though, that the girl should realize maybe how it makes another feel. I consider it with my close close guy friend's girlfriends. I really do. Because I know thats what Id want, and I know I can still be best broskis with him and not make his girlfriend sad or angry.
My bf's downright stupid when it comes to women, and often times they play up on his ignorance. But as soon as another woman (me) puts her foot down, they back off.
There's a line, a fine one, and all parties should be respectful not to cross it on all sides. Sadly, most dont care enough to...
Janine, how long have you and he been together? *gets girly and gossipy* :P <3 <3