I am very passive and he is pretty like I dunno how to explain, rigid and unyielding I guess. It kinda makes me sad, but also angry cus if he WANTED to he could learn to loosen up more and not have such a pessimistic and self-righteous attitude but he doesn't think there is anything wrong with how he thinks, frustrating! He is sweet when he wants to be and VERY giving and never complains about caring for me and has a good moral compass, and is a big baby when it comes to animals and loves snuggling, etc. just his self-righteousness smothers me sometimes. We had a marraige talk the other day ( neither of us are ready for a while for that) and he just doesn't trust anyone, not even me completely I think. He said he'd ask for a pre-nup I said, 'well if you ask for that I am asking for pre-marraige counseling.' He asked me "doesn't like everyone go through pre-marraige counseling?"
I wanted to hit my head against something when he said that. UGHH! MEN! why do we love them again????
1 Doberman Mix: Emmy, 2 DSH Cats: Rowan & Jacob, 1 Bearded Dragon: Rainier (aka Mista Lizad Man), 1 Eastern Box Turtle: Greta, Two 5g tanks: Alchemy (Halfmoon) and Custard (Yellow VT)