I agree with dragonflie. I'll say only one more thing about this. Over at that other forum, once one person jumps on someone, the whole group of them jump on the bandwagon. Then it can get nasty. I saw that happen to another member who had an issue with a mod. First of all, in that situation, the person should have gone to that mod privately instead of airing things out on the open forum. They attacked that person then started getting vulgar. That was why I left that forum. I didn't like how their "18 plus" crap had leaked out in the open forum for kids to read.