Gahh, I'm so angry and upset/hurt.
So I kinda think there are two kinds of w!tches. The first kind are the ones who are upfront about being a w!tch and let everyone know, I have no problem with these, In fact I kinda am one.
But then there are the sneaky witches who will pretend to be your friend and then totally stab you in the back, tell nasty lies about you, and try to turn everyone against each other.
So there is this girl who I work with lets call her N, who up until a few days ago I considered to be a good friend of mine.
I don't really know were to start so please excuse how jumbled up this will be.
So it turns out she has been spreading really nasty lies about me, not only are they totally untrue they are also really damaging to my reputation.
A few days ago she came to me and told me that two people who I work with, lets call them J and D had been gossiping about me.
Now I totally don't care what J or D think or say about me because they are both total cows and don't even know me so I really couldn't care less what they say.
But I kind of had a feeling that I wasn't getting the whole story so I asked one of my really good friends who I 100% trust, turns out N has not only been talking about me, she was the one who started the whole thing.
I also turns out that she has been repeating things I have said as well and making up things to try and turn my friends against me.
The worst part is people warned me about her and told me not to trust her and I didn't listen to them, In some cases I even defended her. I have been nothing but a good friend to her and ways always there for her when she was going through some really hard stuff.
Now I feel totally stupid and used, because I can think of other times she has probably done this to me as well and I can't believe I was to dumb to see it before. But I really wanted people to be wrong about her.
Like two days ago she also basically told me I suck at my job, she thinks this is the reason I'm mad and doesn't know that I know about everything else.
It sucks because I have to work with her, because I would really like to tell her to shove it.
I don't know if i should confront her because she is a supervisor and could make work really hard for me, on the other hand it might be better then just letting it fester.
At least now I know why people have been acting strange around me.
I have no idea how to deal with this.
Last edited by Oldfishlady; 03-09-2011 at 03:26 PM.