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post #191 of 672 (permalink) Old 06-05-2011, 08:34 PM
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I am a teenager and I think many girls are too provocative... heck yes sometimes I like busting out my booty shorts but uh... they cover my butt still!

I am getting annoyed with girls saying, "That male teacher was staring at me! UGH! What a perv! He is probably a pedo!" And then they are wearing a shirt where their breasts are hanging out and shorts so short its all hangin' out... like c'mon, I cant stop staring! And I have no desire for women as I am a female!

You have every right to wear as you please. And I will never judge you as I person, but rather judge you at how I feel you look... for example, someone wearing two inches worth of fabric I will never call sl**, but I WILL say, " Honey, you look like a s***." I think there is a big difference...

I will never ever EVER understand though girls who whine about wanting to be taken seriously but wear clothes like that... >.< put on some jeans without rips, some plain black heels, a turtleneck sweater with a beaded necklace, walk into a work place, and see THEN how you are treated. Go to a party in a dress half-way to your knees with some cute accessories and see if guys do not treat you differently.

I am having a HUGE problem with gal friends getting cheated on. But they are all extremely provocative, met guys at big parties (or doing something illegal), do not respect themselves, etc. And it leaves me dumb founded how they are "surprised". Guys WILL like you if you cover up most (or all) of your goodies, they just wont be there for physical reasons...

I am not a prude, prick, or all for extreme modesty. I just think you should cover most of it up... ya know?

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I think there's a time and a place.. and an age. But then again that's my cultural perspective, there are cultures where women walk around all the time with no top on and nothing is though of it... it was 100*F here today and let me tell you... I almost wish I lived in that society because I was sweating my.. er.. butt off. Luckily for me I have extra butt that needs to be sweated off LOL

Most women/girls who dress very provocatively are products of bad upbringing and a need to feel loved... by any means possible. The need the attention they get to feel good about themselves.

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maybe I'll get some hate for this, but I absolutely hate it when people dress their little like 4 year old girls in stuff like halter tops and short skirts, I think kids should look like kids and not mini britney wannabes >_<
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it was 100*F here today and let me tell you... I almost wish I lived in that society because I was sweating my.. er.. butt off. Luckily for me I have extra butt that needs to be sweated off LOL.
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maybe I'll get some hate for this, but I absolutely hate it when people dress their little like 4 year old girls in stuff like halter tops and short skirts, I think kids should look like kids and not mini britney wannabes >_<
What about that woman who was giving her daughter Botox treatments?
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I think there is a time and place as well. If it is your personal free time, sure, why not? But at school, work places, anywhere professional, seriously, have some dignity...

And I would love to walk around topless, I am just one of those people who feel totally comfortable with that. But in our culture, it isn't accepted, which I recognize, and I would highly prefer to keep a good image and have people judge me as I want them to. I do not want to be known as something bad, but rather a girl that is gorgeous, respectable, and someone you'll want to hang out with. Not someone you should leave on a street corner, LOL!

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What about that woman who was giving her daughter Botox treatments?
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DQ- that was the most ridiculous thing I have heard of... too obsessive right there... I mean c'mon... what the heck was that woman thinking!!!!

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+1 to laughing

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I feel you can dress however you want, but don't expect others to not judge what you wear, like laughing said, it's not that we are calling you an actual s**t, you just look like one. Also don't complain and whine when guys won't leave you alone, I agree with laughing, sometimes I stare too and I'm definitely not into girls >_>;

@DQ: Oh god I don't even want to ask >_<...wait, no it depends on the age. I know in Asia, getting plastic surgery at 16 years old as a gift from your parents is like getting a bicycle or a car.

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"I am not a prude, prick, or all for extreme modesty. I just think you should cover most of it up... ya know?"

Most of the guys I know would prefer a little 'icing' on their cupcakes. There is a mystery to the clothed body that is far more seductive than just letting it all hang out.

True, there are cultural differences. Back at the turn of the 20th century, most American women were pretty well covered-up... if the men got a glimpse of a naked ankle or a dress with a bare back, they got pretty worked up! Women even wore swim dresses that covered them to the top of the calf - scandalous, lol!

I feel bad for the teenage boys that are in public school. I don't understand how they can learn anything with the soft porn parade that is all around them every school day.

I think the boys and girls should be dressed in orange prison outfits - pants and smock. No make up, hair dye, piercings, jewlery or visable tatoos for any of them. Standard issue prision footwear. Eight hours of solid learning a day.

And maybe then the next generation of American kids won't grow up to be slaves to the Chinese, selling their body parts for the things they want/need...

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