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post #45471 of 71165 (permalink) Old 08-19-2012, 08:44 PM
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No, girls are catty and sneaky and over analyze things too much. We are also very subtle, so guys need to actually pay attention to us to know what we want.

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idk. sometimes i'm subtle, sometimes i'm blunt about things. depends on my mood.

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Hrmph, now that's just plain insulting! Not all guys are that way, most of my friends were the nicest sweetest guys you could ever meet. What a shame none of them were gay, at least openly. :(

But some guys are, my brother for one....what a jerk! Good thing his wife has one heck of a back hand. XD

Best thing to do crabbytabby is to just go for it blindly, a leap of faith if you will. So what if you fail, there are more guys out there. You won't know unless you try. :)

Edit: hehe I should take my own advice!X3
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post #45474 of 71165 (permalink) Old 08-19-2012, 08:53 PM
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Leap of faith? Bah. I am not that bold. I'll just go about things in my own way, which is to let him make the first move. Is that me being shy? Lazy? Unwilling? Maybe. But I am not gonna get my heart torn out and stomped into a pile of mush ever again.

EDIT:Kinetic, try a dating site if your so keen to get a date, or a long lasting relationship. I tried one last year and it got me my now ex boyfriend. He and I are still good friends, or least I thought we were but he hasn't really texted or messaged me in a while and we haven't really been hanging out much. He says its his work schedule, but I have my doubts.

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dating sites are kind of hit and miss, even if you're serious about finding someone. and the free ones? people barely even fill their profile out at all sometimes, and STILL send you one word messages like "hi" and expect you to reply.

then sometimes when you dont reply you get the guy who messages you again and says "i'm content to love you from afar" @_@

then again you do get a winner sometimes :) even if it doesn't work out

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My past is complicated, the last time I attempted to open my heart.......bad stuff happend. I just still can't talk about it.
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I understand, Kinetic. The old saying "Time heals all wounds" sometimes isn't true. It would take a millennium to heal some of my wounds. That's why I don't want to take the leap of faith. I just can't do that knowing that its outcome might be disastrous.

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Whatever happened, we're all here for ya, Kinetic.

Same for you, Crabby. Whatever you choose to do, we're here for ya too. :)
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Because... we love you all no matter what!!
(And so do those little tiny lovable fishies!)

taking a break from fish-keeping.
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Dawww. You guys are the best! ^_^

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