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post #46861 of 71165 (permalink) Old 09-02-2012, 12:14 AM Thread Starter
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Don't know why, though. :D
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some people do better single, some people do better in stable, happy relationships. just depends on the person.

My new fish are doing well! But my siblings keep trying to name the angels. Its getting old.

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Is it me or is it getting hotter in here? Oh wait... that must be Sakura... She's on FIRE!

I'll give you a gold star if you can eat a single Balut.

Check this thread out if you want a betta to cuddle with you. This is Jrf456's thread.
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It's love. My grandparents still hold hands after 35+ years of marriage. I will work for a relationship like theirs. With ups and downs, but willing to work it out, together. It's not supposed to be easy. But he enriches my life, and I appreciate him. Love seriously is a great thing when you find it.


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Woah lateeeee. That's what I get for poofing in the middle of typing stuff.

Bekah! :3 see I'm back! Kinda!
I also left my laptop in the dorms and I can't play games. Lollll.

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I refuse to go down that path of darkness and wallow in my own self pity over something I can't really control. I used to do so and ended up in a ever tightening spiral of "I'm going to be alone forever." and "I'll never find my soul mate." till I hated myself and thought myself unlovable, either for my physical appearance, or my personality. So much so, that I wanted to end it all.

I am now working on loving myself and keeping my mood above those spiraling things. I absolutely refuse to be that person again. Its not a pretty thing to be. Now I am living under the mantra, "I don't need the love of another person to be happy." and its been a much happier existence.

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Ken,

Jen, yeah, my parents are celebrating a milestone anniversary this year (well, celebrated already actually). Can't remember if it's 35 or 40 years. And this with my mom having multiple health problems because of a lifetime of type 1 diabetes.

I don't need the love of another person but if I find it, I'm keepin' it. :) Hey, I could write a country song!
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good for you crabby.

i'm with sakura. if i find a good man, i'm keepin him :3 even if it ends, it's still an experience i wont regret

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I'm still gonna love and tolerate everyone forever. <3 :)

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Is that sarcasm I detect Bekah? If it was, it was rude, and uncalled for.

Sakura, you'd need to talk about your dogs, your truck and your long lost love that all got taken away from you to be considered a country song.

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