I state to the OP: What do you mean you don't care about sexism?!?!? Grimke, Stanton, and Mott are not heroes to you? (those are American reformists.. I only know the Canadian ones). Giving up personal freedom and equality to a man is okay to you? Letting men physically, emotionally and verbally assualt women is fine? Applauding those who believe women are weak minded fools who cannot survive without a generous man to look after her... etc. So if we erased the +100 years of work, women would go back to raising kids, not voting, cleaning house, waiting on her man hand to foot, keeping silent about her needs.. etc... I'm sorry, you cannot be okay with being sexist! Not as a woman in Western society.
To me that is completely different. What I mean is I hate those feminist people at my school who are all like: EQUALITY FOR WOMEN! Then expect men to treat them nicer. If you want equality then men will treat you like other men, don't expect special treatment. Then there are also the other idiots who lash out at men holding doors for them, implying that they cannot do it themselves. Do you want to know why "Chivalry is dead"? It's because of feminism -__-.
I don't know any of those people you named. Also honestly, verbally/physically/emotionally assaulting ANYBODY is NOT fine. Not just women/children, that's selfish.
Also, if you engage into a relationship in which a man takes away your freedoms, then either get out or that's just your own fault. There are some people who are okay with it, some others who are not. A lot of Asian women (myself and my mum not included, we are very white washed) don't mind it at all. As long as their husband provides money for the family, they are fine with staying at home being pretty much a servant. (Who live in western society, too...my friend's family is an example)
Haha, just because you don't like sexism doesn't mean there are people who should believe the same way :P
In any case, this is all really awesome :D Thanks everybody