My bf thinks I pamper my fish too much, asks me why I'm changing the water when it's "clean", thinks fish are just fish, the list could go on. What the worst part is, is that he owns two bettas himself. We have an agreement that he takes care of his tanks and I take care of mine, however, he is constantly telling me how to take care of my fish (keep in mind what I've said above). I feel sorry for his bettas.
I don't get it because he was the one who wanted to have an aquarium. He supposedly dated the fish girl from petsmart or petco some time ago. Was she this obliviously to fish-keeping or did he not learn anything. Why is he choosing to remain ignorant. All this is beyond me.