First off, the main person telling me what I CANNOT do, I barely know. Nice enough person, but a bit pushy. I HATE THAT.
Granted I forgot for a second about "don't lift $&*t over your head". All I did, was flip a single twin mattress that literally was lighter than anything I've lifted. I got SNAPPED at and then she told my brother who ALSO SNAPPED AT ME.
At this point, it is not going to be lifting things or eating the wrong things or whatever that will cause problems it is going to be the built up tension, because I am outright FRUSTRATED and when I am frustrated, I become aggressive and defensive to a point where I want NOTHING TO DO WITH PEOPLE. And from what I know STRESS causes miscarriage more than ANYTHING ELSE. And you know what? I was doing just bloody fine until people would not leave me the heck alone!!!!!
I'm going to end up isolating myself to avoid this bull. I am tired of it, it's hurting ME and potentially will hurt the kid too.
Instead of people saying DON'T DO THAT DON'T DO THIS YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG blah blah blah.... Why can't people just suggest? "Instead of doing it that way which will strain and cause you pain, how about doing it this way? Harder, but less painful!" I do NOT take commands that well. I can take suggestions, if worded right.
AT this point being around such people, makes me second think ever having another kid. It's actually making me say F this, and get tied after this one. Because what is the point of being absolutely useless, NEEDING to be dependent (F&*% sakes I'm no where near the third trimester yet darn it! >:( ), and NOT ALLOWED to do 98% of things because "she said so". Who's pregnant? ME. Not her. I know MY LIMITS. I already FEEL my limits. -sigh-