Oh goodness, Choclate. You should see my two rooms. Our bedroom is finally kind of clean but because my husband said the same thing to me xD "Clean it or you can't have the 55" It worked.
But our sunroom is just awful. I hate ignoring it but it's so much work and between kid, chores, fish and dog.. I gave up. Being an adult is fun but don't grow up too fast, it's not easy. So much responsibility.. it's easy to become overwhelmed.