Maybe it's something with reds. My red girl Grif has a distinctly different body shape than my other girls. She's somehow longer and slimmer, but she's still definitely a she.
The Boy Feesh: Indigo CT, Lavatail CT, Ghost CT, Chicory HM, Redfish VT, Magic DT
The Girl Feesh: Christmas CT, Shine VT, Snowflake CT, Stripes VT, Midnight CT, Grif VT, Tangerine VT, Wraith CT, Amethyst VT, Ice CT, Poe CT, Turquoise II CT