What is wrong with being different? Normal is a fantasy just like unicorns. It can never be achieved. Also nothing has changed, you are still you and you need to love and accept yourself for who you are. Once you concord this, then you will be able to reveal who you really are.
Thank you, it's hard but not as hard as if it were sudden. The docs gave her about week so we knew it was coming but it still doesn't prepare you for the impact.