Well, I got tearless Johnson's baby shampoo and some lotion by that brand as well. I made him sit on my lap while I put the lotion on him - which took half an hour! But he's figured out being touched is NOT bad, painful or scary. He's a work in progress... I'll be giving him a bath soon too. But that might be when he does trust a bit more.
Also I tried using the dryer for the bedding, definitely not worth it. The oven for an hour then air dry over night I think is best

I'll be adding more pictures eventually. Honey gave me a scare. since she is good at magician-ing herself here and there and everywhere, i thought she got out! i couldn't find her! just the baby. I ended up finding her in a small roll of blanket. x.x thank god! only way out would've been into one of the male's domains.....