haha, I think I may have stalked this site for a while before joining too. Dramaqueen, I am glad too that I have found a group of people that understand my crazy love for bettas! Whenever I talk about Tommy to my friends or professors, I always get one of 2 reactions: 1) they laugh with a confused look on their face, or 2) they shake their head with a confused look on their face. haha!!