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Old 08-30-2012, 11:17 AM   #14391 
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very true sometimes i have to remind myself to just not worry lol it all gets mixed in with the rest of the day to day stuff.
if it wasnt the kids it would have been pets as well, just had to deal with the cards that were dealt
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Old 08-30-2012, 02:15 PM   #14392 
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you made me .. lonliness is one feeling i deal with every minute despite being a single mom ... you will definitely find your counterpart/soulmate/true love. The best is to relax, release all worries and very soon your hopes will manifest beyond your wildest dreams *hun*

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I'm sorry, I just get depressed sometimes. Then I start to ramble of depressing things.

But how could I be so depressed now when the full moon is tomorrow!
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Old 08-30-2012, 03:47 PM   #14393 
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Talking about it is good. Don't keep things bottled up. It only makes things worse.
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Old 08-30-2012, 05:29 PM   #14394 
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Talking about it is good. Don't keep things bottled up. It only makes things worse.
Yes, it is just all too easy to forget you're not alone. Thanks!
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Old 08-30-2012, 07:02 PM   #14395 
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I'm sorry, I just get depressed sometimes. Then I start to ramble of depressing things.

But how could I be so depressed now when the full moon is tomorrow!

not to worry i was just implying that i understand what you were saying

And a Blue Moon as i hear wish i had my camera
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Old 08-31-2012, 05:33 AM   #14396 
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My stupid sister-in-law that I always complain about just ran up to me showing me a positive pregnancy test. OMG she is so stupid. She can't even pay her bills now as it is. What is going to be hard about this is I don't want to watch her screw up her life. I know in my heart God is being kiind by not letting me have a kid right now though. I want a career first and I don't want a baby to complicate things. My sis in law just really screwed up her life and she doesn't even know it yet. Her dreams are DONE.
Thats what i though when i learned about a girl that i used to care about had done the same. Her life is done....BOOM! Turns out after ten years the baby FIXED her life. It forced her to come to her senses get a job and organize and prioritize her and the babies needs. She is more happy now that she ever was despite been a single mother for almost a decade.

Time will tell. Those types of living conditions have a way of bringing the best side of a human sometimes.
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When reality sets in maybe maybe it will knock some sense into her.
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Old 08-31-2012, 09:35 AM   #14398 
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I believe that a person is born gay, that its who they meant to be. Its a natural as having two eyes and a nose. To say its unnatural, a freak mistake of wiring, and it needs to be treated like some sort of disease is completely asinine. Its intregrated into your very soul. To try and change your soul is impossible. You just can't change who you are.

But being gay does not define that person. They aren't limited to certain activities or whatnot because of their sexual orientation. I also believe that denying a homosexual the chance, no the right, to be who they are naturally is cruel, inhuman and that said person should be ashamed of themselves for stooping so low as to deny a person their birth right. All people should have the same rights and a chance to the same privileges, irregardless of who they are as a person.

Kinetic, I was just like you when I was younger. I was confused and ashamed that I was having the thoughts and desires I was. I thought that there must be something seriously wrong with me. That I was a sicko and a freak. I kept telling myself that I wasn't that type of person. Gay. I was confused and ashamed and disgusted with myself. I didn't tell anyone and held it in till I thought I would burst. I hated myself and wanted to just end it all. Maybe if I were dead, the thoughts couldn't find me. Soon, I very very tentatively accepted that, meh, its not so bad, that even if its wrong, its okay if I don't tell anyone. Still I held it in. I didn't even respect myself for having those thoughts and feelings, but I allowed myself to have them.

Little by little I grew more accpeting of myself and low and behold, I am free to say that I am who I am and that its finnally okay to be who I am. I am bisexual and I am now vast becoming proud of it. Sure, I will probably end up marrying a man because that's what I want to do, but I do know that I can now have my thoughts and feelings without shame, feeling wrong, and somehow a freak.

I am now at so much peace with myself and my sexuality that I finally feel free.

EDIT: Also wanted to say something I heard on CSI, a show I watch a lot. A homophobe is most likely a repressed homosexual, and is more afraid of it affecting themselves than anything.
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Old 08-31-2012, 10:10 AM   #14399 
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Thats what i though when i learned about a girl that i used to care about had done the same. Her life is done....BOOM! Turns out after ten years the baby FIXED her life. It forced her to come to her senses get a job and organize and prioritize her and the babies needs. She is more happy now that she ever was despite been a single mother for almost a decade.

Time will tell. Those types of living conditions have a way of bringing the best side of a human sometimes.
Tell that to my brother and his wife.....grrr! I could scream at them sometimes.
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Old 08-31-2012, 10:34 AM   #14400 
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Tell that to my brother and his wife.....grrr! I could scream at them sometimes.
I didnt mean that the baby will magically weave a spell and everything will be OK. Its a serious motive though to get you in action. Some do it others dont. It depends on the person.

Now if both your brother and his wife are worth screaming... Well probably it didnt have a positive effect.
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