Shainax the older crowd keeps saying you're young so dont stress, dont beat yourself up about it, and there are other fish in the sea. We dont mean to be condescending because it is not meant as such. Every situation is unique. I dated my hubby from '94 to '01. He left to "go find himself", whatever that meant. Early twenties and discontent with his life in PR and our relationship became collateral damage. He came back and we reconnected. We got married in '02, have a strong marriage and a 6 y/o. So dating the same guy again isnt necessarily a no-no but right now he's too immature to be worth the aggravation. Hope this helps.