Originally Posted by Shirleythebetta
I get tired of hearing "when are u having kids" all because my sis in law is pregnant. Why are women freaks if they don't have kids by 20 around here? I wish people would stay out of my personal life.
i totally understand what you mean
, growing up it was always like a big thing to be with someone and have children and once you reached atleast 18+ the remarks would increase so it would feel like pressure was placed to have a partner and start popping out the babies
I had that happen and now I always hear "having kids is such hard work, why did you have so many?" "wheres the father?" "Isnt he helping, has he even seen the kids?" "Do you allow him to see his children?" *high almost whiny voice* ugh..if you didnt want me to have so many you shouldnt have pressured and forced me into believing this was the way things were in the world
Never satisfied with anything even if you do, do your very best to live within their standards they always find fault, always.
Which is why now I have a friend who is willing to teach my children different languages as well as help them with their homework atleast acouple days a week so my children can communicate with others around the world and grow to understand there is more to life then "finding a gf/bf and having babies"