Originally Posted by thekinetic
My rant; today is my 30th birthday, 30 years of being alone....fgvcrt (sorry that was me slamming my fist into the keyboard).
The worst part is how it eludes me, it's cruel. I've tried searching, not searching, and everything in between. AAAAAAAAAGHHHHHHH I'm tired of being alone but can't do anything about it WHAT DOES THIS DARN LIFE WANT FROM ME?!*is crying* What does it want?
Happy birthday!!!! hugs!!!!
It is my belief that everyone will find someone for them in their own time. It is never the right time, nor wrong time to find that someone.
My best friend is right now going through some relationship problems.. short story, living with a guy she went out with for 2 yrs. (a great one too!), he is enjoying playing house and doesn't see marriage. It is selfish of him to string her along.
Also, another example. My BF and I have been together for 7 years. Neither him nor I are ready to be married, but once I graduate and get a job I will be. I will most likely be close to or be in my thirties and him close to or in his forties by then. Will we EVER get married?? We talk about being with each other as long as poss. We are essentially married in terms of our relationship, except for the legal document. But will we ever be completely merged in our life? I feel like my BF is enjoying being a BF and having a GF that is like his wife because he is scared of total commitment and some things with his parents.
Better to take your time and find someone that right off the bat you know will take you in a long term situation, rather than be wondering "What's going on here??"
You'll get there! :) Don't lose hope!