I understand what you are trying to get at but I was living in the moment of my anger. There are smart and considerate males out there but they are rare.
Sparrow, you make an excellent point.
Choclate:

I wasn't referring to you.
~update~ He redeemed himself. Things are cool now. Just took some face-to-face communication and willingness to listen and understand on my part. He just didn't make himself very clear earlier and I hen-pecked him, again, on his need to improve his communication skills. I am a reasonable person, just a bit volatile at times.