Okay. I realized this would ignite a fire but I also posted later that he redeemed himself. Yes, I cannot speak for all men, that is impossible. I try my best to help resolve our communication issues when there is a breakdown.
Did I say I was perfect? No.
Hopeless: I am generally attracted to "bad" men but this is one of the good ones, we just had a communication breakdown and misunderstanding.
Bahamut: I have read a similar book. This was more of a breakdown of communication. I am fully aware of the fact that men and women process and react differently.
Once again, we talked it over, he apologized for the lack of communication and the misunderstanding. Things are good.
On a personal note, this is a rant thread. I came to vent, did so, and may have irked some people. Take offense if you will or won't. As I said in the second post, it was a venting process. I am always open to debate.