Originally Posted by JJChocolate88
i did so some research
I dunno...I think it would benefit you to have read more before you started on this.
First off, I would congratulate you on making it this far since many first time breeders don't get nearly as far as you have. But it seems everything you're "panicking" about on your various other threads (including this one) have all been descriptions of NORMAL betta breeding activity that are easily learned if you would've just read or watched some videos.
I wouldn't bother the male right now. Let him do his thing. Don't intervene until the fry are free swimming. The more you bother him (esp him being a virgin) the more he will screw it up.
Again, all of this is stuff you can easily have found online or other websites about betta fatherhood.