Originally Posted by RussellTheShihTzu
Not taking sides, here.
But would like to point out one respondent posted:
"However, we never hear follow-ups on these cases. The members just disappear. I imagine that sh*t hit the fan and they came home one day and found fish fins and guts strewn all over their tank. But do they report that to us? No. No one wants to admit they made a mistake and done something wrong.
people do this and are never heard from again."
It seems to me the OP was simply responding that he/she would not take off but would also post if the ultimate happened. JMO and not agreeing or disagreeing with anyone.
Yeah, that was me. I admit my opinions on the matter are quite strong and I do apologize if my comment came off as me being rude. That was never my intention.
Still, to people who care deeply about fish (I am not implying that the OP does not, btw), "Well they may kill each other or not, but until then they are fine" can be extremely hurtful.
EDIT: Sorry, Perseusmom, I didn't see your post when I posted this.