I agree that mistakes are going to help you learn, but really listen to everyone on the forum here. I took everyone's advice and made sure my fish were ready and healthy before breeding and I had a successful breeding my first time! (Except for the fact that it turned out the male was an egg eater :( ) But again, listen to all the advice from the experienced breeders on the forum. No one means to attack you but it can get frustrating to read keep coming across posts about problems when that person has been told multiple times exactly what to do.