Originally Posted by dramaqueen
I was never made to do anything when I was young. I cooked and cleaned when I was in college but when I moved back in with my mom she never asked me to do anything. It was just easier for her to do it herself, I guess. Then, when she is unable to do heavy stuff after her surgery, I get criticized how I wasn't used to doing housework. THEN, my mom tells my brother that it was overwhelming to me he says it's all part of being an adult. Those comments made me mad.
Those comments would make me mad too! Why is it our family members are always the ones who hurt us the most with their words? I also hate when I do something and they double-check it or redo it like what I did wasn't good enough. Well, if it wasn't good enough, it's because you don't let me do enough to gain experience. I'm ashamed to admit at my age that I still don't know how to cook or even properly do the laundry. But my mom says it's just easier if she washes my stuff with everyone else's. *shrugs* Sigh.