Originally Posted by purplemuffin
You'd be surprised how often it's the females that kick the male's butts! I think from what I've seen is a lot of it has to do with who's in 'the mood'
Seems like the girls get beat up when they don't respond to the male's advances--or worse, if they ARE receptive and ready to breed, and the male just wants to fight! But if the girl decides she wants to kick some butt, that male will get some serious injuries, even from a little lady!
I know what you mean. Almost every time I breed, I find that the female is not the one to take all the beating without leaving the male with some fins off. Especially this one girl that I had. She was a red VT and she was SO stubborn.
It gets a bit frustrating, but the results are worth it!