I offer you hugs, Bluewind. I'm so sorry you're having such a hard time
My rant: I'm on a stepparenting website. One stepmother posted that her stepdaughter was upset after her mother called. The reason? The SD's mother called and told her that the little girl's fish died while she was moving house. Stepmother followed up with "why doesn't she just get a new beta (sic)? They're like a dollar."
Followed up by a whole bunch of people saying "why is she upset? It's just a fish!"
First of all, the little girl was six. Second of all, a fish is not "just a fish" to lots of people. Grrr >_<
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