OK so I finally got a successful spawn ( I have had successful spawns, but no fry), and now I have wigglers, 200 or more of them! SO HAPPY! I have included a picture of daddy, he isnt flaring to show his full potential, but mommy is literally identical in coloring and pattern, even though they are not related. I got the female from Bettas Rule off of here (bettascapes.com). SOOOO EXCITED! Will post pics of both parents as soon as she stops having stress stripes, and once he is removed from the tank.
Here is a video of them spawning -
he is an excellent father, and she was a great mom too, she added to the nest, and placed eggs in as well.