So I have my male and my female. I have the female now in a separate 1 gallon tank and my male in my 10 gallon tank. Well, I want to breed them, but every time I put them together, the male is aggressive toward the female but not in a good way. The female just gets scared and swims away. I've tried raising the temp in the tank and adding live plants, but neither seems to work. The male keeps chasing the female around and flaring and trying to bite/attack her. I've tried many tips from the internet but none seem to work. Do you think it's the male or the female that is the problem?