Nice, you're pretty good then for the time being :)
Again i'm really so sorry I type so darn much in posts. I feel like I have to fit everything in one darn post.
BTW- you're a good betta mom, don't be hard on yourself. ;)
ON THE OTHER HAND: If you insisted on never feeding your fish because "they eat the roots of a peace lilly" then well I would probably not think you were a good betta mom, and I could only imagine the content on a thread like that sheesh. LOL!!!
It's why the forum exsists after all, so we can figure out wtf we are doing ;) and for those that know, or have experienced, to share ;)