I used to have issues with plants and anything regarding plants. Well a change in light and the right information has turned my thumbs green! Trust me I failed at everything and came home to a dead male as well
(Im sorry for what happened to your boy!) I recommend a light bulb at 6500k if it is a smaller bulb go to walmart they have one for $5. OFL told me about them. Also try to dose some kind of ferts if you arent using a soil or nutrition rich substrate. Personally wisteria has grown like weeds under the right lights for me. Even in a window that gets good sun. Try anacharis and duckweed or frogbit. My favorite is purple cabomba! It turns purple and is gorgeous IMO. Dont give up you can do it!!