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Old 07-20-2012, 12:19 PM   #1 
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feeling guilty about Leo dying

I feel guilty that he died. Is it bad for me to stress about it?
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Old 07-20-2012, 12:21 PM   #2 
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Aww. What happened to him? :(
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Old 07-20-2012, 12:22 PM   #3 
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I guess the 2 feet he fell last night was too much and he passed away
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Old 07-20-2012, 12:33 PM   #4 
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It's normal to stress over the loss of our beloved pets. They become part of our daily lives.

My condolences.
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Old 07-20-2012, 12:36 PM   #5 
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Im sorry to hear that, I know how you feel. When my boy jumped out I did not see him and stood on him and killed him outright, I was gutted and felt sick

It normal to feel upset and stressed when any member of the family dies. Big hugs to you xx
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Old 07-20-2012, 01:02 PM   #6 
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I'm so sorry for your loss. :( I know exactly how you feel, I always wonder if there was something I could have done, but sometimes these things are out of your control. It's wonderful that you care so much when too many people don't care enough, but don't beat yourself up about it, your fishy wouldn't want that. :)
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Old 07-20-2012, 01:29 PM   #7 
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You can't blame yourself. "Bad things happen, but you can still live," is a good quote for this situation. You can honor the little guy by making sure it doesn't happen again.
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Old 07-20-2012, 01:54 PM   #8 
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I'm sorry this happened, but please don't beat yourself up about it. Funny for me to say that because I ALWAYS beat myself up when I lose a loved pet. Can't be helped though.
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Old 07-20-2012, 02:05 PM   #9 
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Last week I saw a cute little creamsicle VT, maybe he will be there tomorrow. :)
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Old 07-20-2012, 03:29 PM   #10 
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Im really sorry about your loss, thats terrible. Don't beat yourself up about it, it wasn't your fault. You were great to Leo =)
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