Thanks everyone. I is so great to have help when u need it. Dique thanks for the site but I had already found it. I thought maybe seed shrimp too but it is not big enough. So today I did a big clean and filtered a bunch of he water through some coffe filters and it is mostly gray debree. The water appears crystal clear until you disturb the sand then a huge mess. So I cleaned a bunch of it and the water coming out was gross. One of my original thoughts was snail waste. Even though it doesn't totally sound like the description this all started after the snail. The sites I went to said snail are huge waste producers so the snail is gone. Hopefully this will help. My betta appears better than ever and hopefully I can ge things back the way it was two weeks ago. Fingers crossed. The other hong as someone suggested is the quality of the sand and hard water. It is cheap sand and we have very hard water so I will see if it continues, I may have to look into that as well. For now the snail is in a friends tank and hopefully mine will get back to normal. I will keep u all posted and hopefully Cerulean will be able to handle all the water changes while I try to sort this out. Why oh why did I think he needed friends? (shaking my head)

. Till later thanks again all