Well they are spawning sporadically. Not sure if they actually know what on earth they are supposed to be doing. Female swims under the nest, wraps with the male, they go down and look for non-existent eggs, female loses interest and swims off, realises male is there and the whole cycle repeats itself haha
Even my virgin wilds were less awkward than this and this pair has done the deed before. Male gets one more chance before I switch him out. If that doesn't work will have to use my other female.