Thanks everyone!
She has not eaten yet. Well she has tried the bloodstone and spit them out. She tried a pellet but couldn't get it past her mouth. I tried chrusing it up and it looked like she maybe got one tiny bit, but I'm not sure.
Unfortunately, I don't have any IAL.
I might just try the salt, thank you!
Oh and I have sand in all 6 of my tanks, (now 7) well except for one actually, that has plant substrate. I actually find it a lot easier to clean as the ickies sit right on top. Plus, I figured that sand would be a lot more comfortable for her to lay on.
Thank you for all of your comments/suggestions! I really appreciate and need them!
Meg